Every other day, several single women step out in style to social functions, hoping that at least a man will approach them for a conversation. Sadly, a good number of them end up disappointed. No matter how much the women try, the men don’t seem too eager to make the first move.
Are men not approaching women anymore? It turns out they still are! People are getting into relationships every other day, and a number of them end up at the altar. The wedding industry is at an all-time high. The notion that soul mates don’t exist anymore is simply false. I firmly believe that men are interested in women as always, and new couples are coming together every day. Let go of the false believes that are prevalent among singles.
Here’s how you can make it easy for men to approach you:
1.Accept to meet new people
You may be blaming the men for not approaching; yet you’re hardly giving them any opportunity to do so. Go out to more social gatherings and network with the crowd. Ever considered a blind date? Give it a try. Avoid analyzing too much; and coming up with countless reasons why the meeting might not go well. Nobody’s asking you to walk down the aisle; at least not yet! Just go out there and have fun.
Every woman wants to look good when attending a function. Clothes are selected with precision; hair and make-up done to perfection. But is that all there is to beauty? Real beauty radiates from within and is more attractive than a sexy dress or fine jewelry. It shows in the way you talk, laugh, complement others and appreciate the small things in life. Try focus on these things for your next social function, without spending a fortune on your attire. Not only will you have much more fun, you’re also likely to attract the right men and you can kick it off from there.
3.Invite with a smile
Walking up to a woman is a daunting task for any man. They’ll be glancing at you from a distance, trying to predict your reaction when they walk over. A smile on your face tells a guy that he’s welcome to chat. A brief eye contact also goes a long way in putting the man at ease. Be warm; and man will definitely consider you approachable.
4.Accept his charm
Most guys will approach you with a complement; never mind that it can be creepy, exaggerated or downright hilarious. Either way, take it with grace. You don’t want the man to feel rejected. Once you’re receptive to his maiden attempt, he’ll be attracted to you even more and will definitely stay and chat.
5.Allow him to be the hero
Men take pride in being saviors, doing for you what you can’t do for yourself. Ask for help from that guy ogling you. Let him help carry your bags or check out that funny noise from the bonnet. With his ego already stroked, he’ll be more than willing to stay and chat. Apply these tips in your next couple of social functions. Don’t forget my invite to your big day.