Obsession Phrases Review – Kelsey Diamond Reveals What Men Want To Hear From The Women They Fall In Love With

There is no dearth of relationship improvement guidebooks for women and Obsession Phrases by Kelsey Diamond happens to be the new offering on the shelves.

It’s almost customary for all these products to promise what seem to be the white elephants in the world of human interactions; happy relationship, success in attracting men, a sudden peaking of confidence levels and much more.

Do you know what to say to spark his obsession?

Do you know what to say to spark his obsession?

Unfortunately, a few pages into these books and most realize they are being given an overdose of commonsense advice, which they can get for free.  Isn’t that what girlfriends are for?

However, given the thriving market for such products, just about everybody wants to make a quick buck by claiming to provide the magical solution that the Bridget Jones’s of the world need.

This brings us to question of the day, is Obsession Phrases just another futile book that you are going to toss out or does it really have the life altering secrets that it purports to reveal?

In this Obsession Phrases review, I’ll delve deeper into exactly what this product is, what it can do for you, its pros and cons and whether you should be investing your time, money and, above all, hopes in it.

If you’d like to skip the review and let Kelsey Diamond explain herself how it all works, then click this direct link to her website.

Obsessions Phrases: Does It Really Work?

Before you try to analyze the efficacy of the information provided in this guidebook, you need to understand the core principle on which the product is based.  Obsession Phrases claims to make use of two techniques; Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) and Miltonian hypnosis that are now widely being used in psychotherapy as well as in negotiation and entertainment settings.

In layman terms, think mentalists!

They are the guys on TV who can read your mind and steal away the secrets buried deep in your psyche.  These are tried, tested and scientifically devised verbal cues that send messages and affirmations to the unconscious mind.  When used correctly, the impact of Neurolinguistic programming and Miltonian hypnosis is utterly staggering!

The author of Obsessions Phrases, Kelsey Diamond, worked with several hypnotherapists early on in her life.  So, it can be safely said that she may have picked up some of the best kept secrets in the business.

Unlike the regular image of hypnosis, there is no pendulum to concentrate on here.  This is mind control with mere words.  In fact, psychotherapists and psychologists have been relying on these techniques to successfully get their patients out of things like depression, anxiety and addictions.

So, can covert hypnosis really be used for seduction like the Obsession Phrases ebook says?

In a single word, yes!

In fact, so potent are these methodologies, they can be used in just about any life situation.  However, in this particular product, they are targeted at getting very specific results in a relationship/courtship setting.

The best part about this downloadable PDF is that there is no beating around the bush.  You are told clearly what works, how to use it, and what to expect from it.

The information is laid out succinctly, so the reader does not have to struggle with the application of the principles.  In fact, the author has very creatively segregated these obsession phrases/emotion trigger words based on the scenarios they can be used in.

So, inside the Obsession Phrases book, you will find emotional trigger phrases for every stage of the relationship.  From the very first meeting which calls for a serious dose of seduction right up to the time when couples start drifting apart because their relationship lacks that spark, and everything in between is covered in a fun and interesting way.

Attraction, dating, breakups, commitment, dealing with “players”, turning a man on, keeping a guy interested, getting him to fall in love.  There really are effective words and phrases for just about any scenario you can imagine.  And they have really great names too, like the Love Cocktail Phrase, Razzle-Dazzle phrase, Everlasting Attraction phrase, Whiz-Bang phrase, Monogamy Awakener phrase, Attraction Spinner phrase, Obey Me phrase, and many more.

What Are You Getting When You Download Obsession Phrases?

With the Obsession Phrases PDF, you’re getting a program that not only covers emotion trigger phrases extensively but also teaches you how to use nonverbal cues to your advantage.

The complete Obsession Phrases guide consists of:

The Obsession Phrases Main Manual: This is the book that will tell you about the emotion trigger phrases you should be using and how and when to use them.  You will also learn about how to use body language to project a confident image.  Moreover, the guide also has simple and effective tips on using some classic flirtation methods such as the coy smile or the sensual look and more.

The Man Dictionary: If you fail miserably most of the time deciphering what’s going on in your man’s mind, then you are definitely not alone.  However, with this little dictionary, you will know exactly what your man is trying to convey consciously as well as subconsciously.

The Mind Reader Report: This is a checklist that will help you understand what and how men think and what it is they want even when there are no words spoken.  This is great if you have a man who doesn’t like to “talk about it”, and who would rather keep to himself than tell you what’s going on and what he’s feeling.

Apart from these, the program also has an audio CD and several other reports which are given to buyers as bonuses.  These include the extremely insightful “True Love Report”, which is a guide on how to get a guy to the “love struck” phase and the “Extreme Case Scenario Turnaround” which teaches you how to undo the mistakes that have jeopardized your relationships in the past.

All in all, Obsessions Phrases is a complete course that teaches you how to get a man to experience feelings of love and devotion toward you so that he stays interested and committed long-term.

Should You Put Your Money On This Product?

If you are looking for more than just basic advice, you will appreciate the step-by-step approach of this guidebook.  Obsession Phrases offers a realistic look into how seduction works at the mental level and what makes men tick.

Understanding a man can be a daunting task for a woman because men usually don’t wear their emotions on their sleeves.  Knowing what men want to hear and what they NEED to hear in order to fall in love and stay devoted puts you in the driver’s seat to ensuring his interest is always focused on you and only you.

Societal conditioning often puts men out of touch with their own emotions, which sometimes causes a man to part with the very woman who they’ve desired all their lives.  Kelsey Diamond’s Obsession Phrases shows you how to shoot down the rebuttals and use language to get to his heart.

This is not so much a dating advice book but a guide to hone and nurture long lasting relationships through language and communication.

The Pros

  • Phrases and techniques that work at the subconscious level and trigger natural drives and emotions (love, devotion, desire, etc.) in a man
  • Helps women get in touch with the emotional side of man
  • The results can be instant, astounding and long lasting
  • It covers all stages of the relationship
  • The techniques can be used via email, text, over the phone, or in person
  • Available in downloadable format (PDF ebook)
  • Simple instructional writing that is easy to follow and fun to read
  • Addresses the issues that crop up at the beginning of a relationship
  • Has both in and out of bed seduction techniques
  • Offers a 60-day money back guarantee, so you can simply return it if you don’t like it for any reason

The Cons

  • Does not address the confidence issues that a woman may have after facing years of rejection
  • It tells you about the phrases that will create an impact but actually putting them to work will take some amount of practice and may require some women to step out of their comfort zone
  • More discussion on the right setting and environment to use the various phrases would have also helped
  • The program could have also used insights on how women can restrict their own self-limiting beliefs to keep from “tripping over their own feet” so to speak

The Verdict

Overall, the response to Obsessions Phrases has been very positive with most women reporting immediate and surprisingly positive results.  However, the product is still new and it will be a few months before we get to hear more detailed client feedback.

My own experience with the product was amazing and unexpected, so I would definitely recommend it to any woman who is struggling with relationship woes, whether you are having a hard time to get men to notice you or are in a drab relationship that is going nowhere.

Click here to get access to the digital version of Kelsey Diamond’s Obsession Phrases program and learn more about the hypnotic emotion trigger phrases you can use to connect with any man and make him yours

Obsession Phrases was reviewed by HYSH Review Team on .
The exact words and phrases any woman can use to connect with a man and make him fall more in love. Obsession Phrases by Kelsey Diamond is an online ebook that teaches you how to communicate with a man in a way that makes him feel more connected, attached, and devoted to you and only you. It is an excellent choice for any woman who wants to create a stronger emotional and physical bond with her man while keeping him interested and committed in a long-term relationship.
Rated 4.7 stars out of 5

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Girlfriend Activation System Review – Breakdown Her Obsession Story And Get The Girl

Welcome back to the Man Cave: a small section of this otherwise “girly” blog dedicated to helping men achieve massive success with women.  Today’s post is all about the Girlfriend Activation System.

The Girlfriend Activation System was updated to version 2.0 (GFAS V2) earlier this year and that’s the version I’ll focus on in this review.  Both versions are actually available inside the member’s area to all current and new customers.

Appeal to her obsession story...

Appeal to her obsession story…

Many of the Girlfriend Activation System reviews online are outdated and discuss a 6-part video course.  V1 of the Girlfriend System was in fact a 6-part course, but it underwent a major renovation and is now a robust, 23-part video course that teaches you step-by-step how to get a girlfriend.

Go ahead and check it out here…

Not only does GFAS teach you how to get a girlfriend, but it also teaches you how to keep her.  After all, there’s no real point in finally getting the girl you’ve always wanted, only to have her break up with you a few weeks or months down the line.

If your sole purpose in life is simply to “bang chicks”, this probably isn’t the program for you.  Sure, many of the techniques taught inside the Girlfriend Activation System will help you attract women who will think you’re a total stud and will want to get naked with you for a fun romp under the bed sheets, but this program is designed to help guys who want to create a strong emotional connection with a woman.

When you make the emotional connection, the physical connection follows very quickly, so you’ll still be getting plenty of sex.  You’ll just get it with that one special woman you want to turn into your girlfriend instead of the usual “bar chick” that you have no real long-term interest in, but who still does the trick when your snake is feeling frisky.

So if you want a girlfriend, go with GFAS.  If you don’t want a girlfriend, but still want to turn women on sexually, go with the Desire System.

Got it?  Ok.  Good.

So back to the Girlfriend System.  The Girlfriend Activation System is based on the idea of a woman’s “obsession story”.

That sounds all smart and scientific and stuff, but really it’s just a fancy way of saying there are certain types of men that women are naturally and evolutionarily attracted to.  In other words, a woman’s DNA gets a “lady boner” for certain types of guys who exhibit certain types of traits which makes her want to jump in his pants and be with him for all eternity.

If you’re wondering what type of guy women obsess over, all you have to do is pick up any romance novel and study the leading male character.  Fifty Shades of Grey is a prime example.  What a horribly written piece of junk, and yet women can’t get enough of it.

Why?  Because you turn women on the fastest not by touching them or showing them pictures of your ding-a-ling, but by appealing to their mind.  Imagining what it would be like to be ravished by a man just like the leading characters from literotica novels is enough to get most women worked up into a moistened frenzy.

So the idea here is to become that guy…the obsession worthy man.  The guy every girl wants.  And to do that, you need to learn those special male traits women obsess over and then exhibit those traits in your interactions with women.  The Girlfriend Activation System teaches you exactly how to do it.

Of course that’s only a teensy-weensy part of what you’ll learn inside the Girlfriend System.  You’ll learn how to be “THE MAN”, but you’ll also learn how to navigate through every step of a relationship so you can get the girl you’ve been dying to have and keep her for the long-term.

Use the Girlfriend Activation System to attract the woman you want...

Use the Girlfriend Activation System to attract the woman you want…

What am I talking about here?  Things like how to approach her, what to say to her to build attraction, how to get her number, how to ask her out, what to do on the first date, what to do on subsequent dates, what to text her in between dates, what to do when she wants you to meet her friends or family, what to do on the “sex date”, how to escalate to kissing and sex, how to go from “dating” to a “relationship”, and how to keep the relationship alive and thriving so it doesn’t fizzle out as fast as your hard-on in cold water.

The thing is, if you screw up any one of those phases, you’re done.  Rejection.  No more girl.  Back to making your hand your very best friend.

That’s a hell of a lot of pressure when you really think about it.

The Girlfriend Activation System is designed to take all that pressure away so you can easily progress step-by-step from one phase to the next while creating more and more attraction along the way.

Christian has a ton of great techniques and some, like the modified King Game, can even be used to get the most attractive girls in the room chasing you.

Better yet, since GFAS is a video course and not a downloadable ebook like a lot of the other training out there, you can see everything displayed right in front of you.

Why is that important?

Because it means you can pick up on things like body language, tone of voice, delivery, and all the little things that make a huge difference when you’re interacting with a woman, but that are impossible to fully comprehend by reading words in a book.  Christian even uses real women from the audience to do demonstrations with, so you really get the full effect.

That all sounds great, but what about GFAS complaints.  Any reason not to try it out?

There’s really not a lot to complain about.  I mean it helps you attract the woman you really want and turns her into your girlfriend.  Beautiful women.  Intelligent women.  Fun and confident women.  I don’t know any guys who would complain about that.

“Help me attract and sleep with ugly and annoying women!” said no guy EVER!

If you’re curious what others are saying, this Girlfriend Activation System review, which is really good by the way, provides some examples of both positive and negative reviews about the GFAS system.

But honestly, there’s not a lot of negative talk about GFAS.  Just a bunch of guys really killing it with women!

Check out the program here.

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The Girlfriend Activation System was reviewed by HYSH Review Team on .
A step-by-step system on how to get a girlfriend. Version GFAS V2. The Girlfriend Activation System (GFAS) is an online video course that teaches you how to attract the woman you want, keep her interested, and turn her into a committed girlfriend. It is an excellent choice for men who are sick of “PUA tricks” and are interested in learning how to create a real connection with that one amazing woman they’d love to be in a relationship with.
Rated 4.8 stars out of 5

Felicity Keith’s Language Of Desire Review – Dirty Words, Dirtier Phrases, And A Whole Lot Of Verbal Viagra

Today I want to talk dirty.  Really dirty.

The recent release of Felicity Keith’s Language of Desire has me all turned on, and I’m sure I’m not the only one.

This year has been another great one for dating and relationship products targeted toward women.  Some of the more notable new products include the Penguin Method by Samantha Sanderson, That’s Not How Men Work by Marni Kinrys, and the Spellbound Formula by Yahoo TV’s Mehow.

However, none has been more highly anticipated than the Language of Desire by Felicity Keith.

Make your man sexually obsessed with you...without even touching him!

Make your man sexually obsessed with you…without even touching him!

I first talked about the Language of Desire clear back in February.  At that time, I predicted it would be released sometime in late April or early May.  It’s now October, so that prediction was obviously wrong.

Regardless of my psychic powers (or lack thereof), the Language of Desire was released to the public on October 6, 2014 under the umbrella of Michael Fiore’s Digital Romance, Inc.

I was lucky enough to pull some strings and get early access to the program, and I’ve posted my full Language of Desire review below.  If you aren’t interested in the review and just want to check out the program for yourself, feel free to click this link and go straight to Felicity’s LOD site.

If you aren’t familiar with Michael Fiore, he is an extremely popular dating and relationship coach based in the Seattle, Washington area.  He has made numerous media appearances and even appeared on the Rachael Ray show a couple years back.  Through his company Digital Romance, Inc. Mike has released a wide array of top-selling relationship products for both men and women including Text The Romance Back, Text Your Ex Back, The Secret Survey, and Capture His Heart just to name a few.

Mike works closely with many other relationship experts to put together top-notch products aimed at helping men and women improve their lives and bring more passion, romance, love, and fun to their relationships.  The Language of Desire with Felicity Keith is the “next big thing” for Digital Romance, Inc.

Ok, now that we have introductions out of the way, let’s get to the review…

What Is Language Of Desire?

On the surface, Language of Desire appears to be a dirty talk program for women, but at its core, it’s much more than that.  After all, talking dirty to your man is much more complex than just learning 50 different ways to say “penis” or inserting the f-word into everything you say.

I think most women already know guys LOVE it when a girl talks dirty to them.  However, dirty talk isn’t something that comes naturally to most women.  In fact, it can feel downright awkward and embarrassing and can even make you feel like wanting to be sexy means you must be some kind of slut.  That’s so not true, but so many women feel like they’re doing something wrong if they express themselves sexually.

But talking dirty can also be an incredible way to explore your own sexual desires, improve your sex life, and make a stronger emotional connection with your man.  It’s a great way to get your man totally addicted to you.

As Felicity says inside the Language of Desire program,

I created this program to teach you how to uncover your primal side, completely on YOUR terms (yes, even the most sexually-shy woman can confidently incorporate these techniques!).  You’ll uncover your primal sexuality and OWN it and know how to USE it to fuel your passion… and ignite his.

In the process, you will drive your man wild with desire for YOU and make him truly see you as the amazing sex goddess that you are.  Your intimate connection will be stronger than you ever imagined!

She then goes on to say…

Language of Desire teaches you techniques to tap into the sexual psychology of your man — whether he is your husband of 20+ years or a guy you’ve just met. And this program shows you how to become the incredible, living, breathing fantasy woman he has always dreamed about but didn’t know he could have.

So to say it succinctly, the Language of Desire is about dirty talk, erotic fantasies, and understanding the sexual psychology of men so you can make an incredible connection with your man both in and out of the bedroom.

Who Is Felicity Keith?

I think Felicity sums this up pretty well in the opening of Language of Desire when she says,

In case you are wondering, I’m not a scientist.  I’m not a super model or a stripper or a dominatrix or a home-wrecker.  I’m a regular woman like you… just a suburban mom, actually, who discovered that being sexy doesn’t mean having to be a slut.  And I’ve cracked the secret code to the erotic minds of men.

She’s just an everyday gal with a gigantic understanding of the sexual psychology of men.

Is The Language Of Desire An Online Course?

Yes, the entire Language of Desire system is delivered 100% online.

After you purchase the program, you get access to a private member’s area with all of the content.  You can read the content directly inside the member’s area or you can download both PDF (ebook) and MP3 audio versions to your computer or other device.

Inside the Language of Desire dashboard, there are 10 different core modules and then each of those modules has additional sub-modules underneath it.  I won’t go into great detail describing each and every module, but I did want to provide you with a few screenshots from the member’s area so you can get a feel for what you’re getting and how things are set up.

If you want a good breakdown of the 10 core modules and included sub-modules, this site does a good job of listing them out.

Ok, on to those screenshots…

In the screenshots below, I’ve used red to circle and identify key features of the program.  The Language of Desire program is well organized and very easy to navigate so you shouldn’t have any problems, but this should help you decide if it looks like something that can help you.


Screenshot 1: So when you first log-in to the Language of Desire member’s area, you’ll see what is referred to as the “dashboard”. This contains your member profile, the main navigation bar, and then a list of the 10 core LOD modules. The screenshot above shows just the first 4 modules, but inside the member’s area, you’ll be able to scroll down to see all 10.

Screenshot 2: When you click on one of the core modules, you’ll be taken to a page that looks like the screenshot above.  You’ll see the core module heading at the top, and then each of the sub-modules listed below.  The screenshot above is for module 2: Become A Sexual Superwoman!

Screenshot 3: When you click on a sub-module heading, you can then read and study the content directly from inside the member’s area.  Members can also rate the content, and you can use the navigation bar on the left-hand side of the screen to easily go from one sub-module to the next.  The above screenshot shows the core module “Brain Chemistry And Sex” with its sub-module “Pavlov’s Erection” open on screen.

Screenshot 4: At the end of each sub-module you’ll see an area on the page that looks like the screenshot above.  This is where you can download the module content in PDF (ebook) format or in MP3 audio format if you don’t want to view it directly online.

This is great if you want to print out a copy of the content, listen to it while you’re driving, jogging, etc., or if you have trouble logging into the member’s area or just don’t want to bother remembering your username and password.

Also included at the bottom of each sub-module is a comment feature where you can ask questions or leave comments.  This is a great way to interact with other women in the program and to get help from Mike, Felicity, and other experts whenever you need it.

Since I had early access to the program, you’ll notice no comments have been left yet for this particular sub-module.

Who Will Benefit The Most From This Program And Who Won’t?

I’ve probably made it pretty clear that I love this program.  I think Felicity has done a bang-up job of creating something that will help a lot of women.  Any woman who wants to expand her sexual horizons, master the art of dirty talk, and make her man 100% focused on her can benefit from this program.

The techniques Felicity teaches inside the Language of Desire aren’t just for the bedroom.  Yes, they will keep you from freezing up or feeling embarrassed the next time your man wants you to talk dirty to him, but they can be used just about any time to turn your man on and get him thinking about you.

There are more than 30 different actionable techniques included inside the Language of Desire.  I won’t go through all of them, but I wanted to list a handful of my favorites.

The Madonna Moan which you can use to amp up your man’s desire for you, stroke his ego, and make his toes curl.  You can literally feel your man getting harder inside of you when you do this.

Pavlov’s Erection which is a sneaky technique that conditions your man to immediately get aroused anytime you mention or show him your own “trigger object”.  This is fun, playful, and sexy, and a total thrill to know you can turn your man on with just a word or two.

Tease Intensifiers that playfully ramp up the sexual tension and anticipation with your man.  I like to think of it as dirty talk foreplay.

The Verbal Viagra Method which is a method you can use to get your man’s attention totally on you even if he’s out with his buddies, watching the ball game, glued to his phone, etc.  This might be my favorite Language of Desire technique and is a sure-fire way to get your man hot and horny for you anytime you want.

The Done For You Sexy Texts which actually come as a bonus to the main Language of Desire program. I love these because it’s so easy to pick one whenever you need it and send it as-is or adjust it slightly to your own liking.  No more sitting around for hours trying to think of something hot to say!  It’s like having your own instant database of dirty talk texts whenever you need them.

I could go on and on, but it’s probably easier if you just watch this video where Felicity explains many of the other techniques.

As for who won’t benefit from the Language of Desire program…hmmm…good question.

Obviously if you hate dirty talk or are extremely reserved and conservative when it comes to sex, then you probably won’t like LOD.  You need to at least have an open mind and be willing to try it, or you won’t get much from the program.

Otherwise, the program is dynamite if you want to intensify the sexual and emotional chemistry between you and your man.

Click here and let Felicity Keith explain how to use the Language of Desire to make your man sexually obsessed with you without even touching him

(No time for a video? Click here instead.)

Have fun and be naughty! 🙂

The Language of Desire was reviewed by HYSH Review Team on .
The year’s best compilation of dirty words, phrases, texts, and sexy arousal techniques to turn a man on and make him want you more. The Language of Desire by Felicity Keith is 2014’s best dirty talk program that also gives women a complete education and understanding of the sexual psychology of men. Released under the umbrella of Michael Fiore’s Digital Romance, Inc., it is an excellent choice for any woman who wants to explore the limits of her own sexuality and learn how to talk dirty and turn her man on without feeling awkward, embarrassed, or uncomfortable.
Rated 4.8 stars out of 5

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That’s Not How Men Work Review: Wing Girl Marni Kinrys Bares All To Help Women

Ooooo…a perfectly seductive title.  That’s a great way to start this review. 🙂

Over the past few days, there’s been a lot of internet “chatter” taking place about a brand new program from relationship expert Marni Kinrys called That’s Not How Men Work.

Many of you have asked me what I know about it, so today I thought I’d give you a quick glimpse inside the program and share my thoughts.

If you want to get a copy for yourself, you can do so here.

What Is That’s Not How Men Work And Who Is This Marni Girl Anyway?

That’s Not How Men Work is a 181 page downloadable ebook delivered in PDF format via a private member’s area.  The product is 100% digital so you can access it immediately after purchase and there’s no waiting around for anything to be shipped to you.

That’s a big plus in my mind.  But I’ll admit, I’m not really the patient type when it comes to learning new tips and techniques for attracting delicious men. 🙂

And what exactly is That’s Not How Men Work all about?  Well, like it says on the cover of the ebook, the program is “the simple guide to meeting men, dating men, and making every man in the room want you”.

“This book isn’t your typical relationship book.  It’s not about what you’re doing wrong.  It’s not about discovering the signs that he ‘may be cheating on you’.  It’s not meant to lift you up and candy coat how you’re coming across to men.

It’s meant to give you the truth about men and how they work.  And it’s definitely meant to help you understand that how you think they work, isn’t how men work.

This book is all about men, and by the time you finish reading it, you won’t just know what makes them feel instantly attracted to you, and what motivates them to commit, but you’ll understand it.

The light will come on.  You’ll get it.  You’ll understand what ‘attraction triggers’ men have, where it comes from and why, so that if you’re single and ready to mingle with Mr. Right, you can instantly up your success rate at attracting men around every corner!” – Marni Kinrys, author of That’s Not How Men Work

Basically the book is about understanding men in a unique way that is foreign to most women so you can create the type of deep emotional connection that will not only get a guy hooked on you, but also keep him interested for as long as you want him to be.

The general premise of That’s Not How Men Work obviously isn’t new, as there are quite a few relationship products out there that cover the topic of understanding men.  For example, some of the more notable ones you may have heard of before include The Secret Survey by Michael Fiore and What Men Secretly Want by James Bauer.

However, Marni’s new program is one of the most unique I’ve come across in quite some time.  I found that to be extremely refreshing because some of this relationship advice stuff starts to get real stale, real quick when you get the same advice over and over again from different authors. I’m sure you agree!

Marni Kinrys, author of That's Not How Men Work

Marni Kinrys, author of That’s Not How Men Work

I think the reason That’s Not How Men Work has such a unique flair is due to Marni herself.  Let me just say, Marni Kinrys is one super popular girl.  Yet, a lot of women have probably never even heard of her.

It’s pretty clear why guys love her.  Just look at her, she’s gorgeous!

But beyond her stunning looks, she’s also extremely intelligent and extremely good at helping guys connect with amazing women.  Ok, maybe she uses the word “literally” a few too many times in her That’s Not How Men Work video explanation, but I can forgive her for that. 🙂

Marni was voted the world’s #1 Wing Girl, which basically means she’s the best of the best when it comes to helping men meet, attract, and connect with awesome women.

And the reason a lot of women may not have heard of her, is because up until the release of That’s Not How Men Work, she’s spent all of her time perfecting her Wing Girl Method and having guys pay her boat loads of money to help them get the girl they really want.

In other words, she’s focused all of her attention on helping MEN!

And because of all those interactions with the thousands of men she’s helped, she’s privy to a lot of insider information about how men think, what they REALLY want, and all that good stuff that most women never have access to…(because it’s not just stuff guys come out and tell you on a daily basis).

But not to worry, because now she’s let the cat out of the bag inside her That’s Not How Men Work ebook.

Throughout the rest of this That’s Not How Men Work review, I’m going to cover the inner workings of the book in significant detail.  I know not everyone will want to read all of this, so no hard feelings if you just want to skip straight to Marni’s video.

Like I said previously, That’s Not How Men Work is a 181 page PDF ebook, and it’s broken down into 4 main chapters with a bunch of different sub-sections within each of those chapters.

If 181 pages sounds kind of daunting to you, don’t worry.  Remember, it’s an ebook.  So that means larger font and more spacing.  It’s not like reading 200 pages of tiny text in a print book, so it won’t take you hours and hours to get through.

Obviously Marni has put a lot of hard work into this program and there are such things as copyright laws, so I can’t reveal everything that’s in the book, but I want to give you a quick synopsis of the 4 main chapters so you can get a good feel for whether or not Marni can help you.

If interested, you can view the full Table Of Contents from That’s Not How Men Work here.

That’s Not How Men Work Chapter One: Turn Yourself On In Order To Turn Him On

Chapter one of That’s Not How Men Work is all about YOU.

Its’ all about discovering who you are as a woman, what turns you on, what turns you off, what makes you truly happy, what your boundaries are, what you really want in a partner, etc.

In this chapter, Marni talks about her experiences dating all the wrong men, and there’s a quote that stood out to me.  In trying to figure out why she kept dating the same kind of “wrong men” over and over again, Marni had a revelation.  She says,

“It hit me—I was dating the WRONG men because I was not yet the RIGHT woman.  I had no clue who I was, what I wanted or what my boundaries were.  I didn’t know my values or what I was really looking for in a partner.  Instead I was looking to these men to tell me or at least show me the way. “

I think that quote does a good job of summarizing what the first chapter is all about, and it’s something I think every single woman who has ever had a bad relationship can relate to.

If you’re not the right woman, you can’t meet and attract the right guy.  It’s as simple as that.

Marni says,

“You don’t need the perfect Victoria Secret body type to attract Mr. Wonderful.  You don’t need to be perfect in your mannerisms or the moves you make in the bedroom.  You don’t need to make more money, or become a Rachel Ray-like cook in order to become worthy of that perfect guy.

Perfection in relationships—as in life—is about the imperfectly, perfect fit.  It’s about loving who you are (even when you burn dinner that you worked so hard to prepare), or how you look (even when you’re bloated and haven’t yet had your first cup of coffee).”

And in Chapter one, Marni gives you a ton of useful insights and several exercises to help you figure out who YOU really is.  These include things like:

• The Brain Dump
• The 6 Task Questionnaire
• Awesome You, Awesome Him Lists
• Value Discovery

Some of this stuff can seem pretty trivial at times and I can already hear some of you groaning, but I’m a firm believer that if you actually take the time to do what Marni asks, you’ll open a ton of new possibilities in your dating life.

Crazy stuff! Awesome stuff!

That’s Not How Men Work Chapter Two: The Evolution Of Attraction

Early on in Chapter Two of That’s Not How Men Work, Marni says…

“To give you a quick snapshot of what this chapter is all about, it can be best summed up by a popular cartoon, and how when you hold onto unrealistic expectations about men, you may be waiting a long time!

It’s the classic ‘understanding men’ cartoon and while the illustrations vary from artist to artist, the snapshot always says something like, “Waiting for the perfect man to show up…” and the picture is always of a woman sitting on a park bench…who has now turned into a skeleton. It’s a classic depiction of what women ‘expect’, good for a laugh, and pretty freakin’ accurate!

That ‘perfect man’ may be a figment of your imagination, but a man who is a perfect fit for you is not. He’s out there—a guy who ‘gets’ you in a way no one else can, who is inspired by you, whose libido starts thumpin’ and pumpin’ each time he thinks of you and who can’t stop fantasizing about you—so stop passing him by!”

This chapter is all about getting rid of your pre-conceived notions about men and the unrealistic expectations you put on your relationships.  It’s also the point where Marni gives you a PhD in men, and will be an extremely eye-opening chapter for any woman who feels like men just don’t make sense.

And you’re absolutely right.  Men make ZERO sense when you think about them like a woman.  I think this is one of the biggest challenges women today face in their relationships with men.

Marni describes it well when she says…

“Men work wonderfully as men but they work horribly as women, mind readers or knowing how exactly to fulfill ‘your knight in shining armor’ fantasy.  Do you want him to listen to you as intensely as your best friend does?  That’s not how men work.”

I also have to admit I found some of the evolutionary stuff in this chapter about why guys get turned on by the things they do and what Marni calls the “Caveman Effect”, truly fascinating.

What a fun read!

That’s Not How Men Work Chapter Three: Nailing The Approach

In this chapter, more truth from Marni…

“The thing about men that most women fail to understand is that while we think, “Oh, if I’m pretty enough, or thin enough or sexy enough, he’ll approach me,” but that’s not always true.  He’ll approach you when he feels like there’s little risk for him to get rejected.

I wish that’s how men worked because it’s how we think they work—or how we think they SHOULD work.

Oh he’s a man, he should approach and if he wants me he will.  He should ‘man up’ and ask me out.  But…WRONG.”

I think there’s a ton of really bad dating advice floating around out there that basically says if you’re pretty enough and smile enough, then guys will approach you. That’s simply not true.  I know it.  You know it.  We all know it.

Chapter Three of That’s Not How Men Work has to be one of the best, if not THE best, section of any book on the topic of “approaching” for women.  More specifically, how to make yourself more approachable to men and also the right way to approach a man if you want to make the first move.

That’s right ladies, it’s the 21st century and it’s perfectly acceptable for YOU to make the first move.  If the guy you really want is taking his sweet time and not catching on to your flirting signals, then make a move and go for it!

Just know there’s a right way and a wrong way to approach a guy.  The right approach is a “feminine” approach that still allows him to feel like a man.  The wrong approach can turn him off by making him feel awkward, submissive, or worse.

In this chapter of That’s Not How Men Work, Marni covers everything in detail so you’ll know exactly what to do and what not to do to get the guy you want.

Even the most macho of macho men fear being rejected by a woman they are attracted to.  And when you don’t understand men, all the signals you think you are giving him about your interest can go completely unnoticed or even make him think you AREN’T interested.  What a waste!

This chapter fixes that!

That’s Not How Men Work Chapter Four: Putting Practice Into Perfection

Chapter Four comes down to putting it all together.  In this chapter, Marni walks you through some common dating scenarios or situations where you might find yourself being approached by a guy.

She provides examples of how a woman who doesn’t understand men might typically respond and what you should do differently.  It’s a “Don’t do that. Do this instead,” sort of thing which really helps you grasp all the concepts you learn inside the previous chapters of Marni’s That’s Not How Men Work book.

Bonus Programs From Marni

When you pick up a copy of Marni Kinrys’ That’s Not How Men Work program through this link, it also comes with several different bonus programs.

These include:

1.) Unlock His Secrets which teaches you how to break through even the most disinterested man’s emotional barriers.

2.) Confessions From A Wing Girl: Top Male Attraction Secrets With Bernardo Mendez which teaches you how to create deep, devotional love with a man.

3.) Intoxicate Him With Desire which teaches you how to get a man solely focused on you and only you.

When I get a chance, I’ll try to drop back in and provide some more info on the bonus programs, but for now I’ve got to cut this short and get going.

Hopefully, this That’s Not How Men Work review has given you a better understanding of Marni’s program.

I really do believe if you aren’t currently 100% happy in your relationships with men, then Marni’s book can help you.

Empowering.  Fun.  Extremely insightful!  I really enjoyed it!

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Keep The Spark Burning: Tips for Making Your Relationship Last

datingAll relationships start off perfect, like a Nicholas Sparks film. You are heads over heels in love with each other, you do everything together, and you constantly daydream about the other on an hour to hour basis.

But not all relationships go as planned. As painful as it might sound, most relationships fall into boring routine, wherein both parties are so used to each other that the excitement and fiery passion that were present in the initial stages of the relationship turns stagnant.

But this should not be the case.

Take a Look Inside

When did the boredom set in? And why? Sometimes the reasons are not external, but internal. For example, all relationships go quite stale after some time, but that doesn’t mean that the love is not there. If you’re a person who is always craving excitement, then the commitment of a long-term relationship might not be the right thing for you.

Or another reason is that you are, consciously or unconsciously, trying to keep relationships at a superficial level because you’ve already been hurt in the past. This might be a reason why you are afraid of developing your relationship, for fear of getting deeply hurt. Whatever the case, these are issues that you need to settle internally, and ideally, with the help of your loved one.

Pay Attention

If you’re a man, remember that your woman always wants you to pay attention to her. And you don’t even have to do anything major to make her feel special- even small things, like complimenting her on her looks or taking her on an unexpected date is enough to put a smile on her face.  If you’re a woman, remember that your man is not an emotionless rock that can go live without tender loving care. Compliments and positive statements go a long way. Your man needs a lot of attention and praise too.

Bringing Sexy Back

Romance is the spice that keeps relationships yummy. For women, get in touch with your sensual side.  Try to learn how to strip tease or pole dance. You can even try to read sex manuals together.

But it’s not all about the sex. Even simple romantic gestures, such as celebrating the first time that you’d met or your anniversary, giving her flowers on unexpected occassions, massaging each other’s back, can go a long way in reigniting the passion in a relationship.

Variety is the Key

Routine is boring. You might be so used to the everyday going-ons in your relationship that you don’t have anything to look forward to during the day. So, what is the solution to this problem? Simple: make an effort to try something new.

Are you an adrenaline junkie? Then go sky-diving or wall-climbing. Like to travel? Then go beyond the usual tourist spots and go climb a mountain together. Don’t settle for the usual movies and dinner dates routine- these things are easy. Do something that you both have never done before, and see the fire coming back into your lives.

5 Tips You Can Implement Today To Attract A Man’s Attention

outonthetownEvery other day, several single women step out in style to social functions, hoping that at least a man will approach them for a conversation. Sadly, a good number of them end up disappointed. No matter how much the women try, the men don’t seem too eager to make the first move.

Are men not approaching women anymore? It turns out they still are! People are getting into relationships every other day, and a number of them end up at the altar. The wedding industry is at an all-time high.   The notion that soul mates don’t exist anymore is simply false. I firmly believe that men are interested in women as always, and new couples are coming together every day. Let go of the false believes that are prevalent among singles.

Here’s how you can make it easy for men to approach you:

1.Accept to meet new people

You may be blaming the men for not approaching; yet you’re hardly giving them any opportunity to do so. Go out to more social gatherings and network with the crowd. Ever considered a blind date? Give it a try. Avoid analyzing too much; and coming up with countless reasons why the meeting might not go well.  Nobody’s asking you to walk down the aisle; at least not yet! Just go out there and have fun.

2.Redefine beauty

Every woman wants to look good when attending a function. Clothes are selected with precision; hair and make-up done to perfection. But is that all there is to beauty? Real beauty radiates from within and is more attractive than a sexy dress or fine jewelry. It shows in the way you talk, laugh, complement others and appreciate the small things in life. Try focus on these things for your next social function, without spending a fortune on your attire. Not only will you have much more fun, you’re also likely to attract the right men and you can kick it off from there.

3.Invite with a smile

Walking up to a woman is a daunting task for any man. They’ll be glancing at you from a distance, trying to predict your reaction when they walk over. A smile on your face tells a guy that he’s welcome to chat.  A brief eye contact also goes a long way in putting the man at ease. Be warm; and man will definitely consider you approachable.

4.Accept his charm

Most guys will approach you with a complement; never mind that it can be creepy, exaggerated or downright hilarious. Either way, take it with grace. You don’t want the man to feel rejected. Once you’re receptive to his maiden attempt, he’ll be attracted to you even more and will definitely stay and chat.

5.Allow him to be the hero

Men take pride in being saviors, doing for you what you can’t do for yourself. Ask for help from that guy ogling you. Let him help carry your bags or check out that funny noise from the bonnet. With his ego already stroked, he’ll be more than willing to stay and chat. Apply these tips in your next couple of social functions. Don’t forget my invite to your big day.